Monday, April 20, 2009

seven.

o·pin·ion·at·ed adj Holding stubbornly and often unreasonably to one's own opinions.

hmm, let's see world. am i opinionated. i think not. do i have opinions? yup. and my opinions are never unreasonable. yeah i might be stubborn, but i have an open mind that gets me in trouble sometimes. yes i hold true to my opinions but if someone comes around and they want to change my opinion i listen, take in their input, but sometimes(most of the time) the person's reason is unreasonable. like if you smoke. why? can you answer me with a good reason that makes sense and unselfish? and if you want to have an abortion. why? because you just don't want the responsibilities of being a parent? because your mom would kill you? those reasons are selfish and illegitimate. if it's because you don't want the baby to grow up to have a horrible life, or you got raped... THAT'S a good reason. or something simple enough, if you like a band. why? is it because you genuinely like their music? do you like their faces? and then when i give my opinions, my likes or dislikes people fight me on them. i state my reasonable reasons as to the way i live. people just don't accept that. even though i am completely fine with having different opinions. and i'm non-accepting and judgmental?

can we just agree to disagree?
it's a sad thing.

i don't judge people, i just simply think most people are stupid, or acting stupid. for this exact reason. every person i have ever met, with exceptions of some people, are like every one else regardless of what they seem. i thought i finally found some unique people, i was wrong. no i don't mean that type of uniqueness that doesn't exist. the type that says, "I COPY NO ONE AND TAKE NOTHING FROM NO ONE." that is impossible. there is nothing new in the world, you can't be unique like that. i mean the type of uniqueness that sets you apart from the others. the worst part is that i care about them all and it kills me inside to see people i call my friends making stupid decisions and i can't say anything without being "OPINIONATED" or "JUDGING" really? sorry i care about your well being. sorry that it hurts me to see you get hurt. sorry for trying to be a good friend. honestly the people who are opinionated are them. they listen to nothing but themselves or people who share the same opinions as them. they shut you off only ready to defend, never ready to receive.

come on, come on give it a chance
and i guess i might be the only one to get it done.


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